{"id":107074,"date":"2023-10-22T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-22T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/?p=107074"},"modified":"2023-10-23T10:41:20","modified_gmt":"2023-10-23T08:41:20","slug":"ksiazki-o-chlopakach-przegryw-gruby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/ksiazki-o-chlopakach-przegryw-gruby\/","title":{"rendered":"Ch\u0142opcy (nie) do bicia. Oceniamy ksi\u0105\u017cki \u201ePrzegryw\u201d i \u201eGruby\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Jedna bazuje na pog\u0142\u0119bionych wywiadach z m\u0142odymi m\u0119\u017cczyznami, druga jest fikcyjn\u0105 histori\u0105. Obie nowo\u015bci wydawnicze w gruncie rzeczy opowiadaj\u0105 jednak o tym samym, wzajemnie si\u0119 uzupe\u0142niaj\u0105c. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 <em>Jak si\u0119 masz? Wszystko w porz\u0105dku?<\/em> \u2013 zagaduje koleg\u0119 u\u015bmiechni\u0119ty kibic brytyjskiej dru\u017cyny pi\u0142karskiej <strong>Norwich City<\/strong>. Ten, cho\u0107 wygl\u0105da na nieco spochmurnia\u0142ego, nie zd\u0105\u017cy nawet odpowiedzie\u0107. W ko\u0144cu rzucone p\u00f3\u0142g\u0119bkiem pytanie to nie bodziec do dyskusji, tylko kole\u017ce\u0144ska kurtuazja. Poza tym na boisku wiecznie co\u015b si\u0119 dzieje. Gdyby dzia\u0142o si\u0119 co\u015b z\u0142ego, m\u0119\u017cczyzna na pewno da\u0142by o tym zna\u0107 na pomeczowym piwie.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\"  id=\"_ytid_67756\"  width=\"1170\" height=\"658\"  data-origwidth=\"1170\" data-origheight=\"658\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/tX8TgVR33KM?enablejsapi=1&#038;autoplay=0&#038;cc_load_policy=0&#038;cc_lang_pref=&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;loop=0&#038;modestbranding=0&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;playsinline=0&#038;autohide=2&#038;theme=dark&#038;color=red&#038;controls=1&#038;\" class=\"__youtube_prefs__  epyt-is-override  no-lazyload\" title=\"YouTube player\"  allow=\"fullscreen; accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen data-no-lazy=\"1\" data-skipgform_ajax_framebjll=\"\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption><sup>Spot dru\u017cyny pi\u0142karskiej Norwich City powsta\u0142 w zwi\u0105zku z obchodami kolejnego \u015awiatowego Dnia Zdrowia Psychicznego<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Smutek d\u017centelmen\u00f3w<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Powy\u017csza historia niestety nie ko\u0144czy si\u0119 szcz\u0119\u015bliwie. Cichy i wycofany entuzjasta futbolu pewnego dnia zasiada obok pustego krzese\u0142ka. Jego przyjaciela, na pierwszy rzut oka zachowuj\u0105cego si\u0119&nbsp;swobodnie i rado\u015bnie, nie ma ju\u017c na \u015bwiecie. Spot, w kt\u00f3rym obydwoje wyst\u0105pili, poni\u00f3s\u0142 si\u0119 po sieci w zwi\u0105zku z obchodami kolejnej ods\u0142ony <strong>\u015awiatowego Dnia Zdrowia Psychicznego<\/strong> przypadaj\u0105cego na 10 pa\u017adziernika. Jak \u0142atwo si\u0119 domy\u015bli\u0107, ma uwra\u017cliwi\u0107 na pal\u0105cy problem samob\u00f3jstw w\u015br\u00f3d m\u0119\u017cczyzn. Ze statystyk WHO wynika, \u017ce w niekt\u00f3rych krajach (w tym w Polsce) odbieraj\u0105 sobie \u017cycie zdecydowanie cz\u0119\u015bciej ni\u017c kobiety. Taka asymetria to przede wszystkim konsekwencja utrwalania wzorc\u00f3w r\u00f3l p\u0142ciowych. M\u0119\u017cczyzn od dziecka uczy si\u0119, \u017ceby nie okazywali zanadto swoich emocji. Z za\u0142o\u017cenia s\u0105 twardzi i bezwzgl\u0119dni, bo \u0142zy to wyraz s\u0142abo\u015bci. Panuje przekonanie, \u017ce nie musz\u0105 prosi\u0107 o pomoc. Wystarczy wypad do baru albo wsp\u00f3lne kibicowanie i wszystko b\u0119dzie dobrze.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"535\" src=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-1024x535.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-107350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-1024x535.png 1024w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-300x157.png 300w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-768x401.png 768w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-370x193.png 370w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-800x418.png 800w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-740x387.png 740w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-20x10.png 20w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/worldmental-92x48.png 92w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption><sup>Grafika informuj\u0105ca o \u015awiatowym Dniu Zdrowia Psychicznego. Jego symbolem jest zielona wst\u0105\u017cka<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prze\u0142amanie schemat\u00f3w<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Genderowe stereotypy na szcz\u0119\u015bcie powoli odchodz\u0105 do lamusa. Du\u017ca w tym zas\u0142uga medi\u00f3w, kt\u00f3re rozbrajaj\u0105 g\u0142\u0119boko zakorzenione schematy. Wra\u017cliwi, odstaj\u0105cy od kanonu panowie odwa\u017cniej te\u017c zaznaczaj\u0105 swoj\u0105 obecno\u015b\u0107 w popkulturze. Nie trzeba d\u0142ugo szuka\u0107: Paulowi Mescalowi w <em>Aftersun <\/em>albo Colinowi Farrellowi w <em>Duchach Inisherin<\/em> daleko do filmowych samc\u00f3w alfa. Obydwoje ucz\u0105, \u017ce m\u0119skie s\u0142abo\u015bci nie powinny by\u0107 t\u0142umione, bo pr\u0119dzej czy p\u00f3\u017aniej i tak wyjd\u0105 na wierzch. Teraz podobny temat podj\u0119to w dw\u00f3ch wydawniczych nowo\u015bciach, kt\u00f3re w\u0142a\u015bnie trafi\u0142y na polski rynek. Jedna osadza go w ramach teoretycznych i reporterskich, oddaj\u0105c g\u0142os grupie ignorowanych cz\u0119sto internaut\u00f3w. Druga to bardzo udana, cho\u0107 nieco kr\u00f3tka pr\u00f3ba fabularna. Przyjrzyjmy si\u0119 ka\u017cdej z nich.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\"  id=\"_ytid_86584\"  width=\"1170\" height=\"658\"  data-origwidth=\"1170\" data-origheight=\"658\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/wOCwr17kDfk?enablejsapi=1&#038;autoplay=0&#038;cc_load_policy=0&#038;cc_lang_pref=&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;loop=0&#038;modestbranding=0&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;playsinline=0&#038;autohide=2&#038;theme=dark&#038;color=red&#038;controls=1&#038;\" class=\"__youtube_prefs__  epyt-is-override  no-lazyload\" title=\"YouTube player\"  allow=\"fullscreen; accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen data-no-lazy=\"1\" data-skipgform_ajax_framebjll=\"\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption><sup>Zwiastun filmu <em>Aftersun <\/em>w re\u017cyserii Charlotte Wells<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ksi\u0105\u017cki o m\u0119\u017cczyznach: <em>Przegryw.<\/em> Internetowi samotnicy<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ilustratorka <strong>Alekandra Herzyk <\/strong>i dziennikarka <strong>Patrycja Wieczorkiewicz <\/strong>stan\u0119\u0142y przed trudnym wyzwaniem. W <em>Przegrywie. M\u0119\u017cczyznach w pu\u0142apce gniewu i samotno\u015bci <\/em>(Wydawnictwo W.A.B.)<em> <\/em>podj\u0119\u0142y si\u0119 zmapowania zjawiska polskiego incelstwa. Terminu tego, wywodz\u0105cego si\u0119 ze zbitki wyraz\u00f3w <em>involuntary <\/em>(mimowolny) i <em>celibate<\/em>, zacz\u0119to u\u017cywa\u0107 ju\u017c w latach 90. Szczeg\u00f3lnie popularny okaza\u0142 si\u0119 jednak p\u00f3\u0142tora dekady p\u00f3\u017aniej, w dobie popularno\u015bci 4Chana i Reddita. Nad Wis\u0142\u0105 upowszechni\u0142 si\u0119 za spraw\u0105 innego serwisu, gdzie panuje wolna amerykanka \u2013 Wykopu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"753\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/przegrywksia\u0328z\u0307ka-753x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-107352\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/przegrywksia\u0328z\u0307ka-753x1024.jpeg 753w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/przegrywksia\u0328z\u0307ka-221x300.jpeg 221w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/przegrywksia\u0328z\u0307ka-370x503.jpeg 370w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/przegrywksia\u0328z\u0307ka-740x1006.jpeg 740w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/przegrywksia\u0328z\u0307ka-20x27.jpeg 20w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/przegrywksia\u0328z\u0307ka-35x48.jpeg 35w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 753px) 100vw, 753px\" \/><figcaption><sup>Ok\u0142adka ksi\u0105\u017cki <em>Przegryw. M\u0119\u017cczy\u017ani w pu\u0142apce gniewu i samotno\u015bci <\/em>Patrycji Wieczorkiewicz i Aleksandry Herzyk <\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Incele m\u00f3wi\u0105 o sobie sami, \u017ce <em>przegrali \u017cycie<\/em>. Doskwiera im dojmuj\u0105ca samotno\u015b\u0107. Ju\u017c w szkole nie byli duszami towarzystwa, tylko outsiderami ze wzrokiem wbitym w ksi\u0105\u017ck\u0119 albo smartfona. Omija\u0142y ich pierwsze dom\u00f3wki, imprezy urodzinowe czy wyjazdy. Nigdy nie poszli na randk\u0119, nie wspominaj\u0105c ju\u017c o jakiejkolwiek relacji romantycznej czy stosunkach p\u0142ciowych. Dziewczyny traktuj\u0105 ich jak powietrze. Nawet gdy kt\u00f3ra\u015b zdecyduje si\u0119 na spotkanie, przy pierwszej mo\u017cliwej okazji ucieknie do bardziej atrakcyjnego konkurenta \u2013 gigachada. Zawsze, niezale\u017cnie od okoliczno\u015bci, taki kto\u015b zwyci\u0119\u017cy charyzm\u0105 i u\u015bmiechem.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ksi\u0105\u017cki o m\u0119\u017cczyznach: <em>Przegryw.<\/em> W pu\u0142apce kompleks\u00f3w<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Pora\u017cki matrymonialne to nie wszystko. <strong>Herzyk<\/strong> i <strong>Wieczorkiewicz<\/strong> trafnie diagnozuj\u0105, \u017ce to jedna z najwi\u0119kszych rozterek przegryw\u00f3w, ale ich lista jest jeszcze d\u0142u\u017csza. Incele z trudem patrz\u0105 w lustro. Najch\u0119tniej poprawiliby wszystko \u2013 od zakoli, przez kszta\u0142t twarzy, a\u017c po wzrost i rozmiar penisa. Niekt\u00f3rzy nawet usi\u0142uj\u0105 wzi\u0105\u0107 si\u0119 w gar\u015b\u0107, ale&nbsp;\u015bwiadomo\u015b\u0107, \u017ce inni zwyci\u0119\u017cyli w genetycznym losowaniu i nie musz\u0105 zanadto dba\u0107 o wygl\u0105d, bywa demotywuj\u0105ca. Poza tym panowie s\u0105 nie tylko na peryferiach \u017cycia spo\u0142ecznego, ale te\u017c rynku pracy. Nie sko\u0144czyli studi\u00f3w, zarabiaj\u0105 marne grosze. Cz\u0119sto mieszkaj\u0105 z rodzicami, kt\u00f3rzy nazywaj\u0105 ich darmozjadami. Wiele historii ukazanych w ksi\u0105\u017cce<em> <\/em>kryje przez to schemat <em>przegrywowego perpetuum mobile<\/em>. Nie ma dok\u0105d uciec, nie ma czym si\u0119 pokrzepi\u0107.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CwwzbN0NXYc\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CwwzbN0NXYc\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> <div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CwwzbN0NXYc\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A post shared by Wydawnictwo W.A.B. (@wydawnictwo_wab)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ksi\u0105\u017cki o m\u0119\u017cczyznach: <em>Przegryw.<\/em> Profesjonalno\u015b\u0107, nie protekcjonalno\u015b\u0107 <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Najwi\u0119ksz\u0105 si\u0142\u0105 autorek okazuje si\u0119 szacunek, jakim darz\u0105 swoich bohater\u00f3w. Nie podlega w\u0105tpliwo\u015bci, \u017ce bez niego trudno my\u015ble\u0107 o przeprowadzeniu szczerych, pog\u0142\u0119bionych wywiad\u00f3w. <strong>Herzyk<\/strong> i <strong>Wieczorkiewicz<\/strong> od pocz\u0105tku deklaruj\u0105 si\u0119 jednak&nbsp; jako feministki, a incele \u2013 delikatnie rzecz ujmuj\u0105c \u2013 nie lubi\u0105 kobiet. W ich rozwi\u0105z\u0142o\u015bci upatruj\u0105 jednego ze \u017ar\u00f3de\u0142 swoich problem\u00f3w. Uwa\u017caj\u0105, \u017ce panie dokonuj\u0105 powierzchownych wybor\u00f3w, bo niepohamowane po\u017c\u0105danie odziera je z racjonalno\u015bci. Oceniaj\u0105c ich postaw\u0119, nie przebieraj\u0105 w s\u0142owach, m\u00f3wi\u0105c o <em>kurwach <\/em>albo <em>szmatach<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CwfiXcHosua\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CwfiXcHosua\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> <div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div> <div style=\"display:block; height:50px; margin:0 auto 12px; width:50px;\"><svg width=\"50px\" height=\"50px\" viewBox=\"0 0 60 60\" version=\"1.1\" xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" xmlns:xlink=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/1999\/xlink\"><g stroke=\"none\" stroke-width=\"1\" fill=\"none\" fill-rule=\"evenodd\"><g transform=\"translate(-511.000000, -20.000000)\" fill=\"#000000\"><g><path d=\"M556.869,30.41 C554.814,30.41 553.148,32.076 553.148,34.131 C553.148,36.186 554.814,37.852 556.869,37.852 C558.924,37.852 560.59,36.186 560.59,34.131 C560.59,32.076 558.924,30.41 556.869,30.41 M541,60.657 C535.114,60.657 530.342,55.887 530.342,50 C530.342,44.114 535.114,39.342 541,39.342 C546.887,39.342 551.658,44.114 551.658,50 C551.658,55.887 546.887,60.657 541,60.657 M541,33.886 C532.1,33.886 524.886,41.1 524.886,50 C524.886,58.899 532.1,66.113 541,66.113 C549.9,66.113 557.115,58.899 557.115,50 C557.115,41.1 549.9,33.886 541,33.886 M565.378,62.101 C565.244,65.022 564.756,66.606 564.346,67.663 C563.803,69.06 563.154,70.057 562.106,71.106 C561.058,72.155 560.06,72.803 558.662,73.347 C557.607,73.757 556.021,74.244 553.102,74.378 C549.944,74.521 548.997,74.552 541,74.552 C533.003,74.552 532.056,74.521 528.898,74.378 C525.979,74.244 524.393,73.757 523.338,73.347 C521.94,72.803 520.942,72.155 519.894,71.106 C518.846,70.057 518.197,69.06 517.654,67.663 C517.244,66.606 516.755,65.022 516.623,62.101 C516.479,58.943 516.448,57.996 516.448,50 C516.448,42.003 516.479,41.056 516.623,37.899 C516.755,34.978 517.244,33.391 517.654,32.338 C518.197,30.938 518.846,29.942 519.894,28.894 C520.942,27.846 521.94,27.196 523.338,26.654 C524.393,26.244 525.979,25.756 528.898,25.623 C532.057,25.479 533.004,25.448 541,25.448 C548.997,25.448 549.943,25.479 553.102,25.623 C556.021,25.756 557.607,26.244 558.662,26.654 C560.06,27.196 561.058,27.846 562.106,28.894 C563.154,29.942 563.803,30.938 564.346,32.338 C564.756,33.391 565.244,34.978 565.378,37.899 C565.522,41.056 565.552,42.003 565.552,50 C565.552,57.996 565.522,58.943 565.378,62.101 M570.82,37.631 C570.674,34.438 570.167,32.258 569.425,30.349 C568.659,28.377 567.633,26.702 565.965,25.035 C564.297,23.368 562.623,22.342 560.652,21.575 C558.743,20.834 556.562,20.326 553.369,20.18 C550.169,20.033 549.148,20 541,20 C532.853,20 531.831,20.033 528.631,20.18 C525.438,20.326 523.257,20.834 521.349,21.575 C519.376,22.342 517.703,23.368 516.035,25.035 C514.368,26.702 513.342,28.377 512.574,30.349 C511.834,32.258 511.326,34.438 511.181,37.631 C511.035,40.831 511,41.851 511,50 C511,58.147 511.035,59.17 511.181,62.369 C511.326,65.562 511.834,67.743 512.574,69.651 C513.342,71.625 514.368,73.296 516.035,74.965 C517.703,76.634 519.376,77.658 521.349,78.425 C523.257,79.167 525.438,79.673 528.631,79.82 C531.831,79.965 532.853,80.001 541,80.001 C549.148,80.001 550.169,79.965 553.369,79.82 C556.562,79.673 558.743,79.167 560.652,78.425 C562.623,77.658 564.297,76.634 565.965,74.965 C567.633,73.296 568.659,71.625 569.425,69.651 C570.167,67.743 570.674,65.562 570.82,62.369 C570.966,59.17 571,58.147 571,50 C571,41.851 570.966,40.831 570.82,37.631\"><\/path><\/g><\/g><\/g><\/svg><\/div><div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\"> <div style=\" color:#3897f0; 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border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: auto;\"> <div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div><\/div><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/a><p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CwfiXcHosua\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A post shared by Patrycja Wieczorkiewicz (@commie_bunnycorn)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Para autorek z reporterskim zaci\u0119ciem nie daje si\u0119 ponie\u015b\u0107 emocjom. Na pr\u00f3\u017cno szuka\u0107 te\u017c u niej protekcjonalnych zachowa\u0144. Stopniowo zdobywa za to zaufanie kolejnych przegryw\u00f3w, przekraczaj\u0105c kolejne kr\u0119gi manosfery. Poznaje osobny, ca\u0142kiem bogaty idiolekt komentuj\u0105cych na Wykopie, w kt\u00f3rym <em>redpill <\/em>i wspomniany <em>gigachad <\/em>to jedynie wierzcho\u0142ek g\u00f3ry lodowej. Tw\u00f3rczyniom udaje si\u0119 przy tym nada\u0107 swoim poszukiwaniom proaktywny wymiar. Cz\u0119\u015b\u0107 interlokutor\u00f3w daje si\u0119 nam\u00f3wi\u0107 na spotkanie na \u017cywo i wizyt\u0119 w teatrze. Wroc\u0142awski spektakl <em>A mi\u0142o\u015bci bym nie mia\u0142 <\/em>Jana Hussakowskiego to dla niekt\u00f3rych wielkie wydarzenie \u2013 pierwszy pretekst do wyj\u015bcia z domu od kilku tygodni.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/janhussakowski-683x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-107354\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/janhussakowski-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/janhussakowski-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/janhussakowski-370x555.png 370w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/janhussakowski-20x30.png 20w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/janhussakowski-32x48.png 32w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><figcaption><sup>Plakat spektaklu <em>A mi\u0142o\u015bci bym nie mia\u0142 <\/em>Jana Hussakowskiego \/ materia\u0142y prasowe <\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Na pohybel radykalizmom <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Je\u015bli spot ekipy Norwich City potraktowa\u0107 jak pr\u00f3b\u0119 prze\u0142amania tabu dotycz\u0105cego m\u0119skiego samob\u00f3jstwa, warto wpisa\u0107 <em>Przegrywa <\/em>w t\u0119 sam\u0105 interwencyjn\u0105 kategori\u0119. Incele to grupa, kt\u00f3ra pad\u0142a ofiar\u0105 zaniedba\u0144 systemowych. Upad\u0142a pod naporem rosn\u0105cej presji i oczekiwa\u0144, a teraz ma\u0142o kto wyci\u0105ga do niej pomocn\u0105 d\u0142o\u0144. Ba, jest raczej obiektem docinek i sta\u0142ym tematem\u00a0mem\u00f3w. Jej zrozumienie r\u00f3wna si\u0119 oddaniu g\u0142osu s\u0142abszym, nieobecnym w szerokim obiegu, ale te\u017c zapobieganiu rosn\u0105cych antagonizm\u00f3w spo\u0142ecznych. W por\u0119 niezatrzymana radykalizacja j\u0119zyka i postaw doprowadzi\u0142a ju\u017c do wielu tragedii, na przyk\u0142ad masakry z Isla Vita sprzed dekady. Nikt nie chcia\u0142by jej powt\u00f3rki nad Wis\u0142\u0105.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"has-text-align-center has-background wp-block-heading\" style=\"background-color:#feff12\"><a href=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/jon-fosse-septologia-wywiad\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Tegoroczny laureat literackiego Nobla na Going. MORE! Sprawd\u017acie, co o <em>Septologii <\/em>m\u00f3wi Jon Fosse<\/a><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ksi\u0105\u017cki o m\u0119\u017cczyznach: <em>Gruby.<\/em> Trudy dorastania <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Przegryw <\/em>to ksi\u0105\u017cka z\u0142o\u017cona, wymagaj\u0105ca masy przygotowa\u0144 i redakcji materia\u0142u \u017ar\u00f3d\u0142owego.<em> <\/em>Ma\u0142o tu subiektywnych opinii, wi\u0119cej analityki. <em>Gruby <\/em>sytuuje si\u0119 raczej na drugim biegunie procesu tw\u00f3rczego. Micha\u0142 Michalski, po raz pierwszy wydaj\u0105cy pod swoim nazwiskiem (wcze\u015bniej jako Krystian Nowak napisa\u0142 m.in. <em>Kacheksj\u0119 <\/em>i <em>Kebabistan<\/em>), postawi\u0142 na czyst\u0105 fikcj\u0119. Id\u0105c przyk\u0142adem innych publikacji z wydawnictwa ArtRage, kt\u00f3rego jest prezesem, nie rozci\u0105ga te\u017c historii w niesko\u0144czono\u015b\u0107. Mimo stosunkowo niewielkiej obj\u0119to\u015bci (112 stron) na kartach kameralnej powie\u015bci udaje mu si\u0119 zawrze\u0107 esencj\u0119 problem\u00f3w ch\u0142opi\u0119cego dojrzewania. By\u0107 mo\u017ce to opowie\u015b\u0107\u00a0to\u017csama pocz\u0105tkom wielu przegryw\u00f3w.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"659\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/gruby-michalski--659x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-107355\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/gruby-michalski--659x1024.jpeg 659w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/gruby-michalski--193x300.jpeg 193w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/gruby-michalski--370x575.jpeg 370w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/gruby-michalski--20x31.jpeg 20w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/gruby-michalski--31x48.jpeg 31w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 659px) 100vw, 659px\" \/><figcaption><sup>Ok\u0142adka ksi\u0105\u017cki <em>Gruby <\/em>Micha\u0142a Michalskiego <\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Tytu\u0142owy Gruby, nazywany niekiedy ma\u0142o pieszczotliwie Bu\u0142\u0105, kt\u00f3ry relacjonuje swoj\u0105 histori\u0119 w pierwszej osobie, to klasowy wyrzutek. Pierwszy w kolejce po zapiekanki w sklepiku, ostatni na WF-ie. W szkolnych \u0142awach nie ma wielu sojusznik\u00f3w poza r\u00f3wnie wycofanym Mareczkiem. Uczy si\u0119 przeci\u0119tnie. Rodzicom nie sprawia zbyt problem\u00f3w, ale nie jest te\u017c&nbsp;powodem do dumy. W\u0142a\u015bnie dlatego postanawiaj\u0105 wys\u0142a\u0107 go na ob\u00f3z organizacji paramilitarnej. Dzi\u0119ki musztrze i twardym zasadom ma zrzuci\u0107 troch\u0119 kilogram\u00f3w i wreszcie sta\u0107 si\u0119 m\u0119\u017cczyzn\u0105. St\u0105d ju\u017c przecie\u017c niedaleko do zdobycia dziewczyny, a co za tym idzie, zdobycia szacunku. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CxgX8yBNVhL\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CxgX8yBNVhL\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> <div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CxgX8yBNVhL\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A post shared by Art Rage (@artragepl)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bez wsparcia rodzic\u00f3w <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Autor umiej\u0119tnie demonstruje dzia\u0142anie wielu mechanizm\u00f3w spo\u0142ecznych, kt\u00f3re ujarzmiaj\u0105 Grubego. Rezolutny ch\u0142opak ma wahania nastroju, braki w komunikacji interpersonalnej i problemy z samoocen\u0105. Wnikni\u0119cie w silnie zmaskulinizowane \u015brodowisko wcale nie rozwi\u0105zuje jego problemu. Jest niczym plaster naklejony na niezagojon\u0105 ran\u0119. Koledzy z klasy rzeczywi\u015bcie zauwa\u017c\u0105, \u017ce Bu\u0142a schud\u0142 po wakacjach, ale szybko znajd\u0105 inny pow\u00f3d, \u017ceby z niego szydzi\u0107. Po czasie do\u0142\u0105czy nawet do nich Mareczek, kt\u00f3remu nie imponuje ju\u017c stary znajomy-przegryw, tylko rezolutny Seba. A co na to wszystko rodzice protagonisty? Ojca najcz\u0119\u015bciej nie ma w domu, bo ci\u0119\u017cko pracuje na utrzymanie. Matka nie ma czasu, \u017ceby pochyli\u0107 si\u0119 g\u0142\u0119biej nad rozterkami syna. Mo\u017ce tylko zaproponowa\u0107 mu to, co w istocie rodzi problem \u2013&nbsp;g\u00f3r\u0119 t\u0142ustego, paruj\u0105cego jedzenia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fbookrage%2Fposts%2Fpfbid0phy9BvQ3tBpMpbjDLD36sUkTcnFtnUVwZMYEDWtmgX8nA9Pxq71q3dr3xvD23vsCl&amp;show_text=true&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"250\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; web-share\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ksi\u0105\u017cki o m\u0119\u017cczyznach: <em>Gruby. <\/em>Nadmorska droga donik\u0105d <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Nietrudno w tym wszystkim zauwa\u017cy\u0107, \u017ce u Michalskiego wa\u017cn\u0105 rol\u0119 odgrywa\u00a0\u015brodowisko. \u2013 <em>Wieczorami ch\u0142opcy wychodz\u0105 na ulic\u0119. Szukaj\u0105 czego\u015b, co wype\u0142ni im czas <\/em>\u2013 omawia\u0142 ponuro posttransformacyjn\u0105 rzeczywisto\u015b\u0107 Artur Rojek. Jego piosenka sprzed blisko \u0107wier\u0107 wieku mog\u0142aby z powodzeniem akompaniowa\u0107 <em>Grubemu<\/em>. Bohaterowie mieszkaj\u0105 w jednym z niewielkich nadmorskich kurort\u00f3w. Latem wszystko t\u0119tni tu \u017cyciem, a wszystkie r\u0119ce id\u0105 na pok\u0142ad. Gdy mijaj\u0105 wakacje, miejscowo\u015b\u0107 pustoszeje, a pracownicy sezonowi staj\u0105 si\u0119 nikomu niepotrzebni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fbabaodpolskiego%2Fposts%2Fpfbid02hHTihnLJpRHLQFaJrjEAceETL2SXpsz2DfURFUkXrH3Dp11nsMCgVUgpRZtYuXvRl&amp;show_text=true&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"706\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; web-share\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Ch\u0142opaki szukaj\u0105 w\u00f3wczas rozmaitych alternatyw. Zabijaj\u0105 czas na automatach do gier, flaneruj\u0105 bez celu, anektuj\u0105 opustosza\u0142e schrony. Bez reszcie oddaj\u0105 si\u0119 masturbacji do postrz\u0119pionych gazetek porno. Kiedy i to przestaje im wystarcza\u0107, si\u0119gaj\u0105 po u\u017cywki. Ukradkiem wypalane papierosy albo \u017c\u0142opane w po\u015bpiechu puszki piwa s\u0105 jeszcze niewinne, ale na horyzoncie pojawiaj\u0105 si\u0119 te\u017c narkotyki. Nie ma jednak nikogo, kto przypomnia\u0142by im, \u017ce to droga donik\u0105d, zw\u0142aszcza \u017ce doros\u0142ym te\u017c brakuje perspektyw na przysz\u0142o\u015b\u0107. Czeka ich albo wyjazd, albo rutynowe i ma\u0142o satysfakcjonuj\u0105ce us\u0142ugiwanie turystom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\"  id=\"_ytid_66418\"  width=\"1170\" height=\"658\"  data-origwidth=\"1170\" data-origheight=\"658\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/hZg2fm-3vDI?enablejsapi=1&#038;autoplay=0&#038;cc_load_policy=0&#038;cc_lang_pref=&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;loop=0&#038;modestbranding=0&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;playsinline=0&#038;autohide=2&#038;theme=dark&#038;color=red&#038;controls=1&#038;\" class=\"__youtube_prefs__  epyt-is-override  no-lazyload\" title=\"YouTube player\"  allow=\"fullscreen; accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen data-no-lazy=\"1\" data-skipgform_ajax_framebjll=\"\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption><sup>Myslovitz \u2013 <em>Ch\u0142opcy <\/em><\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Gruby <\/em>i <em>Przegryw <\/em>okazuj\u0105 si\u0119 wnikliwymi portretami m\u0119\u017cczyzn spoza gazetowych ok\u0142adek. W ich historiach <em>happy end <\/em>\u2013 czy to w postaci idealnie wyrze\u017abionego sze\u015bciopaka, czy atrakcyjnej partnerki u boku \u2013 w\u0142a\u015bciwie si\u0119 nie zdarza. Obie ksi\u0105\u017cki ucz\u0105 jednak, \u017ce ch\u0142opaki te\u017c p\u0142acz\u0105\u00a0i nie warto tego ignorowa\u0107. To, \u017ce si\u0119 o tym zapomina, nie sprawia, \u017ce problem znika. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jedna bazuje na pog\u0142\u0119bionych wywiadach z m\u0142odymi m\u0119\u017cczyznami, druga jest fikcyjn\u0105 histori\u0105. Obie nowo\u015bci wydawnicze w gruncie rzeczy opowiadaj\u0105 jednak o tym samym, wzajemnie si\u0119 uzupe\u0142niaj\u0105c. \u2013 Jak si\u0119 masz? Wszystko w porz\u0105dku? \u2013 zagaduje koleg\u0119 u\u015bmiechni\u0119ty kibic brytyjskiej dru\u017cyny pi\u0142karskiej Norwich City. Ten, cho\u0107 wygl\u0105da na nieco spochmurnia\u0142ego, nie zd\u0105\u017cy nawet odpowiedzie\u0107. 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