{"id":132211,"date":"2025-03-19T14:04:42","date_gmt":"2025-03-19T13:04:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/?p=132211"},"modified":"2025-03-19T14:04:55","modified_gmt":"2025-03-19T13:04:55","slug":"floodlighting-co-to-randki-trend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/floodlighting-co-to-randki-trend\/","title":{"rendered":"Pu\u0142apka zwierze\u0144. Kto praktykuje floodlighting, ten zbyt szybko m\u00f3wi za du\u017co"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Podczas pierwszej randki potencjalny partner informuje ci\u0119 o poprzednich nieudanych zwi\u0105zkach, traumach rodzinnych i najwi\u0119kszych l\u0119kach. Brawa za szczero\u015b\u0107, ale granica mi\u0119dzy jej docenieniem a byciem przyt\u0142oczonym cudzymi emocjami bywa bardzo cienka. <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Ju\u017c na pocz\u0105tku lat 70. w powszechnym u\u017cyciu znalaz\u0142o si\u0119 okre\u015blenie <strong><em>love bombing<\/em>.<\/strong> Pocz\u0105tkowo wykorzystywano je do opisania technik manipulacyjnych sekt i ruch\u00f3w religijnych. Zakl\u0119ty w nim oksymoron trafnie oddaje dwoist\u0105 natur\u0119 zjawiska. Nowy cz\u0142onek silnie zamkni\u0119tej grupy zostaje otoczony wyj\u0105tkow\u0105 opiek\u0105. Nie szcz\u0119dzi si\u0119 mu komplement\u00f3w i wyci\u0105ga si\u0119 do niego pomocn\u0105 d\u0142o\u0144 w ka\u017cdym mo\u017cliwym momencie. Za tak\u0105 serdeczno\u015bci\u0105 nie stoi jednak czysty altruizm. Wprawieni w bojach pod\u017cegacze chc\u0105 osaczy\u0107 nie\u015bwiadomego nowicjusza, \u017ceby ten szybko si\u0119 do nich przywi\u0105za\u0142. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\"  id=\"_ytid_97224\"  width=\"1170\" height=\"658\"  data-origwidth=\"1170\" data-origheight=\"658\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/AppeOVZwAjU?enablejsapi=1&#038;autoplay=0&#038;cc_load_policy=0&#038;cc_lang_pref=&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;loop=0&#038;modestbranding=0&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;playsinline=0&#038;autohide=2&#038;theme=dark&#038;color=red&#038;controls=1&#038;\" class=\"__youtube_prefs__  epyt-is-override  no-lazyload\" title=\"YouTube player\"  allow=\"fullscreen; accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen data-no-lazy=\"1\" data-skipgform_ajax_framebjll=\"\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><sup>6 Signs of Love Bombing, NOT True Love<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Zbyt wiele czu\u0142ych s\u0142\u00f3wek<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Termin <em>love bombing <\/em>wykroczy\u0142 poj\u0119ciowo poza opisywanie zasad dzia\u0142ania sekt. W ostatnich latach zacz\u0119to t\u0142umaczy\u0107 nim liczne toksyczne relacje o charakterze romantycznym. Czym mo\u017ce si\u0119 objawia\u0107? Zmanipulowana osoba otrzymuje ton\u0119 czu\u0142ych s\u0142\u00f3wek, deklaracji mi\u0142o\u015bci, prezent\u00f3w i pr\u00f3b nawi\u0105zania kontaktu. Nie do\u015b\u0107, \u017ce takie gesty cz\u0119sto okazuj\u0105 si\u0119 nieadekwatne do sytuacji, to wyartyku\u0142owanie sprzeciwu wzgl\u0119dem nich nie ko\u0144czy si\u0119 najlepiej. Zakochany czuje si\u0119 w\u00f3wczas niedoceniony i oszukany. \u2013&nbsp;<em>Tyle si\u0119 o ciebie staram, robi\u0119 wszystko, co mog\u0119, a ty wci\u0105\u017c mnie nie doceniasz!<\/em> \u2013 m\u00f3g\u0142by zdenerwowa\u0107 si\u0119 niejeden taki amant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center has-background\" style=\"background-color:#feff12\"><a href=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/love-is-blind-polska-netflix-castingi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Ruszy\u0142y castingi do polskiej wersji programu <em>Love is Blind<\/em>! Kogo wybior\u0105 producenci?<\/a><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Floodlighting<\/em>: rzuci\u0107 nowe \u015bwiat\u0142o na wra\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>W za\u0142o\u017cenia <em>love bombingu <\/em>wpisuje si\u0119 nowy randkowy trend. Swoj\u0105 nazw\u0119 zaczerpn\u0105\u0142 od angloj\u0119zycznego okre\u015blenia na reflektor: silne, sztuczne \u017ar\u00f3d\u0142o \u015bwiat\u0142a. To nie przypadek, bo we <strong>floodlightingu <\/strong>tak\u017ce chodzi o wychodzenie z cienia i wysuwanie czego\u015b na pierwszy plan, \u017ceby by\u0142o jeszcze bardziej widoczne. W tym przypadku chodzi o najrozmaitsze zwierzenia dotycz\u0105ce traum rodzinnych, nieudanych zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w, utajonych l\u0119k\u00f3w albo nieposkromionych pragnie\u0144.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2013 <em>Intensywnym reflektorem staje si\u0119 tu wra\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107. Dzielisz si\u0119 wieloma osobistymi szczeg\u00f3\u0142ami<\/em> <em>naraz, aby zbada\u0107 grunt, przyspieszy\u0107 za\u017cy\u0142o\u015b\u0107 i sprawdzi\u0107, czy druga osoba \u201eporadzi sobie\u201d z trudniejszymi elementami ciebie <\/em>\u2013 przekonuje w <a href=\"https:\/\/www.glamourmagazine.co.uk\/article\/floodlighting-relationship-trend\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">rozmowie z magazynem <em>Glamour<\/em><\/a> Jessica Alderson, za\u0142o\u017cycielka aplikacji randkowej So Synced. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"678\" src=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-1024x678.jpg\" alt=\"floodlighting\" class=\"wp-image-132216\" srcset=\"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-370x245.jpg 370w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-800x530.jpg 800w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-20x13.jpg 20w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-740x490.jpg 740w, https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/light-sky-night-city-skyscraper-tower-mast-club-blue-street-light-nikon-electricity-football-lighting-stadium-floodlight-energy-lights-light-fixture-sigma-d7000-handheld-norwich-307958-72x48.jpg 72w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><sup><em>Floodlighting <\/em>to zalewanie drugiej osoby intymnymi szczeg\u00f3\u0142ami z \u017cycia, a <em>floodlight <\/em>to po prostu reflektor \/ zdj\u0119cie pogl\u0105dowe \/ fot. Fernando Butcher \/ Pxhere.com <\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Dlaczego przedsi\u0119biorczyni uwa\u017ca, \u017ce <em>floodlighting <\/em>jest do\u015b\u0107 podst\u0119pn\u0105 pu\u0142apk\u0105? Problem tkwi w tym, \u017ce transparentno\u015b\u0107, wra\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 i szczero\u015b\u0107 s\u0105 powszechnie uznawane za pozytywne warto\u015bci. Zamiatanie problem\u00f3w pod dywan bywa skuteczne, ale do czasu, gdy nie wr\u00f3c\u0105 niczym bumerang ze zdwojon\u0105 si\u0142\u0105. Warto dlatego m\u00f3wi\u0107 o nich wprost, tyle \u017ce <em>floodlighterzy <\/em>robi\u0105 to&#8230; zbyt wcze\u015bnie. Pierwsza randka to nie najlepszy moment na to, \u017ceby w pe\u0142ni si\u0119 ods\u0142oni\u0107. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@becca\/video\/7348537981902261535\" data-video-id=\"7348537981902261535\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@becca\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@becca?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">@becca<\/a> <p>Floodlighting \ud83d\udca5 thank you @Bren\u00e9 Brown \u2764\ufe0f @The LadyGang \ud83d\udd17  <a title=\"ladygangpodcast\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/ladygangpodcast?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#ladygangpodcast<\/a> <a title=\"brenebrown\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/brenebrown?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#brenebrown<\/a> <a title=\"floodlight\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/floodlight?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#floodlight<\/a> <a title=\"podcast\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/podcast?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#podcast<\/a> <a title=\"goodweek\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/goodweek?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#goodweek<\/a> <a title=\"rhoslcbravo\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/rhoslcbravo?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#rhoslcbravo<\/a> <a title=\"theladygang\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/theladygang?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">#theladygang<\/a> <\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c original sound - Becca Tobin\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7348538162555243295?refer=embed\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound &#8211; Becca Tobin<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><sup>Termin <em>floodlighting <\/em>zaczyna cieszy\u0107 si\u0119 coraz wi\u0119ksz\u0105 popularno\u015bci\u0105 na TikToku<\/sup><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Zwi\u0105zek jako transakcja? <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Za kontrowersyjn\u0105 strategi\u0105 randkowania poza ch\u0119ci\u0105 przetestowania drugiej osoby stoi jeszcze jeden pow\u00f3d. \u2013 <em>Floodlighting nie dotyczy tylko tego, co si\u0119 daje, ale r\u00f3wnie\u017c tego, co oczekuje si\u0119 w zamian<\/em> \u2013 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/traversmark\/2025\/03\/13\/gen-zs-new-dating-trend-floodlighting-explained-by-a-psychologist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">t\u0142umaczy na \u0142amach magazynu <em>Forbes<\/em><\/a><em> <\/em>Mark Travers. W ocenie eksperta ca\u0142kowite ods\u0142oni\u0119cie siebie wed\u0142ug niekt\u00f3rych ma by\u0107 natychmiastowo odwzajemnione. Nawet je\u015bli tak si\u0119 stanie, \u0142atwo zw\u0105tpi\u0107 w przysz\u0142o\u015b\u0107 takiego zwi\u0105zku. W ko\u0144cu potrzeba cierpliwo\u015bci i czasu, \u017ceby w pe\u0142ni zaakceptowa\u0107 i zrozumie\u0107 drug\u0105 osob\u0119.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Podczas pierwszej randki potencjalny partner informuje ci\u0119 o poprzednich nieudanych zwi\u0105zkach, traumach rodzinnych i najwi\u0119kszych l\u0119kach. Brawa za szczero\u015b\u0107, ale granica mi\u0119dzy jej docenieniem a byciem przyt\u0142oczonym cudzymi emocjami bywa bardzo cienka. Ju\u017c na pocz\u0105tku lat 70. w powszechnym u\u017cyciu znalaz\u0142o si\u0119 okre\u015blenie love bombing. Pocz\u0105tkowo wykorzystywano je do opisania technik manipulacyjnych sekt i ruch\u00f3w&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":63,"featured_media":132212,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_wpscppro_custom_social_share_image":0,"_facebook_share_type":"default","_twitter_share_type":"default","_linkedin_share_type":"default","_pinterest_share_type":"default","_linkedin_share_type_page":"","_instagram_share_type":"default","_selected_social_profile":[]},"categories":[7889],"tags":[3394,4868],"thb-sponsors":[],"class_list":["post-132211","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle","tag-news","tag-spoleczenstwo","parent_cat_lifestyle"],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-04-22 04:24:19","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category"},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132211"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/63"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=132211"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":132235,"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132211\/revisions\/132235"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/132212"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=132211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=132211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=132211"},{"taxonomy":"thb-sponsors","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/goingapp.pl\/more\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/thb-sponsors?post=132211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}